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May
07

I’ve just finished reading Jung: A Brief Insight by Anthony Stevens and found it quite enjoyable since I don’t know much about psychology. Parts of the book that I found helpful are:

“Analytic success in making the shadow conscious and coming to terms with its contents results, after the initial struggle, in a sense of greater vitality, of feeling more vigorous, more creative, and more whole. To own one’s shadow is to become responsible for it, so that one’s morality is less blind and less compulsive, and ethical choices become possible. Shadow consciousness is important not only for personal development, therefore, but as a basis for greater social harmony and international understanding.” (80)

“..divest oneself of ‘the false wrappings of the persona’, abandon one’s ego-defenses, and, rather than projecting one’s shadow on to others, strive to know it and acknowledge it as a part of one’s inner life….” (100)

“The great secret is to embody something essential in our lives.” (48)

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I really like Nonviolent Communication – one thing it does is help people realize they have needs and learn to share them. Here are some from http://www.cnvc.org/Training/needs-inventory.

The following list of needs is neither exhaustive nor definitive. It is meant as a starting place to support anyone who wishes to engage in a process of deepening self-discovery and to facilitate greater understanding and connection between people.

CONNECTION
acceptance
affection
appreciation
belonging
cooperation
communication
closeness
community
companionship
compassion
consideration
consistency
empathy
inclusion
intimacy
love
mutuality
nurturing
respect/self-respect
safety
security
stability
support
to know and be known
to see and be seen
to understand and
be understood
trust
warmth

PHYSICAL WELL-BEING
air
food
movement/exercise
rest/sleep
sexual expression
safety
shelter
touch
water

HONESTY
authenticity
integrity
presence

PLAY
joy
humor

PEACE
beauty
communion
ease
equality
harmony
inspiration
order

AUTONOMY
choice
freedom
independence
space
spontaneity

MEANING
awareness
celebration of life
challenge
clarity
competence
consciousness
contribution
creativity
discovery
efficacy
effectiveness
growth
hope
learning
mourning
participation
purpose
self-expression
stimulation
to matter
understanding

The contents of this page can be downloaded and copied by anyone so long as they credit CNVC as follows:

(c) 2005 by Center for Nonviolent Communication
Website: www.cnvc.org Email: cnvc@cnvc.org
Phone: +1.505-244-4041

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My father, a long time deacon in a Pentecostal church, has always encouraged me to “seek Jesus.” As a minister and teacher, I try to follow his wise advice even when it is challenging. But how widely can my father’s counsel be applied? Is Jesus relevant to international relations and the proliferation of nuclear, chemical, and biological weapons?

The authors and endorsers of the Matthew 5 Project think so. We claim that seeking Jesus is quite relevant, and we argue biblically, theologically, and empirically for international cooperation and the reduction of nuclear weapons. In this article I share the substance, realism, and hope found within the Matthew 5 Project statement and encourage you to consider endorsing it and discussing it in your churches.  Click here to read it.

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